I hear you James.
My Dad was also a Vietnam veteran. He died about 10 years ago, but he did live long enough to march in the official "Welcome Home" parade for Vietnam Veterans held in Australian in October 1987, almost 20 years after the last Australian soldiers were withdrawn from Vietnam. My Dad and the tens of thousands of men like him were not welcomed home from the war; they were spat on and called "baby killers". He continued to serve in the Army for a further 20 years after Vietnam but he remained bitter and disillusioned about his participation in the war, and especially about the way the veterans were treated when they returned. That bitterness remains in the hearts and minds of the surviving veterans here in Australia, and I'm sure among the many US servicemen who served in Vietnam.
Thank fully today the public attitude towards our servicemen and women has changed significantly. We have learned to love the warrior, and hate the war.
Since Vietnam, Australian and New Zealand troops have fought along side American troops and each other in numerous wars, conflicts, peacekeeping missions and anti-terrorist actions, and not all of them have enjoyed popular support at home, but we have at least learned to separate our feelings about the military deployments our governments engage in overseas, from our love and respect for the men and woman who are sent by our politicians to fight.
Of course the real victims of the war in Vietnam are the Vietnamese people themselves who have to live with the after effects of that most brutal conflict. Many of the refugees who escaped from Vietnam after the fall of Saigon and settled in Australia after the war remain traumatised by what happened there 40 years ago.
My heart also goes out to all the victims of war, servicemen and woman and civilians alike.