I'm sorry, I don't like this stuff at all !
Strangely I got notified by Planetfigure to reply to this because 'there has been a reply to the thread i subscribed'. The system never did that to me before...
And what a neat reminder, as this expression does deserve some attention. Is it spelling regret for having looked? Or, if I may, is it suggesting this thread might not be ideal posted on Planet? The first possibility implies unnecessary rudeness. The second one is worse: it reflects how some believes in the exclusiveness of PlanetFigure.
I was recently fierecely attacked on Planet for making the point that certain members have been explicit in demanding that only a refined range of subject matters, presented in a refined range of scales and styles, should get an outing on Planet. My attacker believed I was the only one with this impression. The suggestion that I was making this stuff up hurt me deeply. I never meant to stir, and I have very good relationships with quite a few Planeteers. It got to such a point that I almost doubted I made this up myself to attract attention, the ignorant youth that is Michael Tse.
And yet, as it has, mean words surface, with probably even meaner subtexts. The wiser me will stop referring this as a "Planet" issue. I now learn this is not about "Planet". See how Gordy leaves friendly and approving comments on virtually every thread on this column and elsewhere? Planet is fine.
But certain individuals are not.
This is a reminder that I did not make such stuff up. These individuals are not a fragment of my paranoid mind. What a terrible confirmation.
These things beg mang questions. But one I feel most relevant is: how well can one put herself in others' shoes? I mean, most of us end up sharing on Planet because we have become fans of a certain theme or era, right? And these themes and eras can diverge so unbelivably dramatically. And provided we are happy with each other's passion with such themes and eras, there is also the question of presentation. Japanese GK style? American GK style? Andrea and Pegaso style? So on. Raised in East Asia and considerably exposed to Manga, there are a lot of things I have been obsessed with for years that I absolutely do not see myself sharing out here on Planet. But the thing is, I personally believe it would be healthy for all these styles and themes to all show up as each Planeteer pleases.