Pete_H
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Patrick, Anders, & Paul Kelly ... okay, you convinced me. I'll post my original posting.
Here it is ...
Okay, I'll bite. Now my comments are bound to p--s some of you off so sorry if I ruffle your feathers. It is neither my intent to come across as a "know-it-all", so I also apologize if my posting sounds like it.
Guy is absolutely on the money. We post our work and almost certainly get one of two results:
1. no comments at all.
2. almost nothing but "wow, best work ever!" comments.
If we want to become better painters/sculptors, then we have to learn from our mistakes and/or defficiencies. Perhaps if others point them out to us, we will see them. Still, it is human nature to at least feel a small "sting" when hearing such constructive comments. Yes, I feel that sting when I hear from others about what I can improve upon. I feel it not because of ego, but because I think to myself "damn, I should've thought of that!" This is commonly followed by "lesson learned, so try not to forget it next time." It is then that I feel I am taking at least a small step forward in improving my skills. But this would not happen unless I find out what I can improve upon and how to do it - let the "sting" serve me well.
On the other hand, if all I hear is "whoa, that is amazing! Your best work ever!" then it will be difficult at best to learn from my mistakes and move ahead. If all one gets is such feedback, then one may be lulled into a sense of complete and absolute accomplishment. No accomplishment should be complete, for we should always strive to improve even to the smallest extent. If we believe that our accomplishment is absolute, then the door towards advancement of our skills is shut.
Let's get out there and help each other by being honest, supportive, and - most of all - constructive in our critiques. The "sting" we'll certainly feel can and should be tempered with pointing out the strengths in our work. Now, if the painter/sculptor takes a truly constructive comment the wrong way, then that's his problem and good luck to him in furthering his skills. We're all gaining a lot from the resources offered here, and my thanks go out to Gordy and the staff. But we can gain a lot more if we're constructive and honest with our comments, as well as growing a skin thick enough to take it and learn from them.
As for my work posted here, let me have it. Tell me what I can improve on, tell me what I'm doing right and doing wrong, help me learn how I can better myself as a painter, and be constructive about it. As Richard Nixon once said, "sock it to me."
Here it is ...
Okay, I'll bite. Now my comments are bound to p--s some of you off so sorry if I ruffle your feathers. It is neither my intent to come across as a "know-it-all", so I also apologize if my posting sounds like it.
Guy is absolutely on the money. We post our work and almost certainly get one of two results:
1. no comments at all.
2. almost nothing but "wow, best work ever!" comments.
If we want to become better painters/sculptors, then we have to learn from our mistakes and/or defficiencies. Perhaps if others point them out to us, we will see them. Still, it is human nature to at least feel a small "sting" when hearing such constructive comments. Yes, I feel that sting when I hear from others about what I can improve upon. I feel it not because of ego, but because I think to myself "damn, I should've thought of that!" This is commonly followed by "lesson learned, so try not to forget it next time." It is then that I feel I am taking at least a small step forward in improving my skills. But this would not happen unless I find out what I can improve upon and how to do it - let the "sting" serve me well.
On the other hand, if all I hear is "whoa, that is amazing! Your best work ever!" then it will be difficult at best to learn from my mistakes and move ahead. If all one gets is such feedback, then one may be lulled into a sense of complete and absolute accomplishment. No accomplishment should be complete, for we should always strive to improve even to the smallest extent. If we believe that our accomplishment is absolute, then the door towards advancement of our skills is shut.
Let's get out there and help each other by being honest, supportive, and - most of all - constructive in our critiques. The "sting" we'll certainly feel can and should be tempered with pointing out the strengths in our work. Now, if the painter/sculptor takes a truly constructive comment the wrong way, then that's his problem and good luck to him in furthering his skills. We're all gaining a lot from the resources offered here, and my thanks go out to Gordy and the staff. But we can gain a lot more if we're constructive and honest with our comments, as well as growing a skin thick enough to take it and learn from them.
As for my work posted here, let me have it. Tell me what I can improve on, tell me what I'm doing right and doing wrong, help me learn how I can better myself as a painter, and be constructive about it. As Richard Nixon once said, "sock it to me."